Narcissists and Marriage

So very true! They usually have already love bombed their next victim and have them lined up to replace their current spouse long before they even divorce. They reel their next future ex-spouse in by playing the victim of claiming their current spouse is abusive and/or an alcoholic or drug user. They do this to gain the attention and sympathy of their new "love" interest. It is a cycle they repeat over and over again.  Spouse after spouse after spouse.  

The players may change, but the game is the same. 

Dear Narcissist,

Dear Narcissist, 

I saw you coming, from a mile away.  I knew what you were.

I knew what you were capable of.

Everything you do is so very predictable.  

Just as I know you're reading this. 

You cant help yourself.  You're obsessed.  

You are insignificant, a blip of the past, you no longer exist.  Forgotten.  

I see everything that you are not and everything you will never be.  

You are hollow, empty, and cold inside.    

A chameleon.  Constantly shifting, changing, preparing for your next facade.   

What is it like to look in the mirror and see everything you're not?  

Oh, to be so envious of all that are beautiful, talented, empathic, compassionate, and loved. 

How unfortunate for you,  you will never be any of those thin

What’s it like to loathe your own self?

It is sad your upbringing created this monster in you.  

Even sadder...Nothing can fix you.

All you will ever know is manipulation, control, and draining the life from and ultimately destroying those around you.  

You're a sad pathetic loser.

You are the true definition of evil

One thing about evil, though... it eventually grows old, fades away, and dies, unloved and alone…  

Your greatest fear.  

~ S. Smith

Share your story

 Tell your story, that is your right!  As it is my own and NOTHING can take that constitutional right away, no one, no piece of paper, nothing.   Do not be bullied into staying silent.   So I am currently writing mine... it is time.   Those that have suffered or are suffering at the hands of those that get away with their horrible behaviors and mental, even physical abuse need to speak up!   Tell it, Facebook it, Instagram it, Tumblr it, blog it, write your book!  The world needs to know the evil that exists behind closed doors.  You could be sparing the next victim from the same unspeakable torment that you experienced.  

How to get a Narc off your back.....

The harassment, the cyberstalking, the hacking into personal accounts....then they play the victim to anyone that listens.  It gets old, you joke about it, but sometimes it gets so out of control.  For us, with a little help from those closest to us, we had to do what we had to do to feed misinformation to our NarcSociopath in order for It to forever leave us alone.  Sometimes with a little creativity and having a lot of trusted friends that will do absolutely anything to help and keep it all a secret, is all it takes to get them off your back for good.